The Unspoken Rule: When to Cut Your Losses in MMO Dungeons and Raids
The camaraderie of an MMO raid or dungeon can be one of the most rewarding experiences in gaming. However, when a group struggles to progress, it can quickly devolve into frustration. The burning question for many players becomes: how long is too long to stick with a failing group before calling it quits?
This common dilemma was recently discussed, highlighting the varied approaches players take when faced with a group that simply isn’t working. Some players have a strict time limit, while others might give it a few more tries, hoping for a breakthrough.
Factors Influencing the Decision
- Group Composition: A group with mismatched classes or inadequate gear may struggle from the outset.
- Player Skill: Persistent wipes due to mechanics being consistently missed can signal a fundamental skill gap.
- Group Dynamics: Negative attitudes or lack of communication can make even a potentially winnable fight unbearable.
- Time Investment: The longer a group spends failing, the greater the opportunity cost for players with limited playtime.
Ultimately, the decision to leave a group is personal. Some players adhere to a ‘three-wipe rule,’ while others might stay longer if the group is friendly and making some progress. The key is finding a balance between perseverance and respecting your own time.
Based on reporting from PC Gamer. Read full report.




